REASON WHY SOME LADIES ARE NOT GETTING MARRIED
You want to get married. Itâs taken a while to admit it. Saying it out loud â even in your mind â feels kind of desperate, kind of unfeminist, kind of definitely not you, or at least not any you that you recognize. Because youâre… Load more
You want to get married. Itâs taken a while to admit it. Saying it out loud â even in your mind â feels kind of desperate, kind of unfeminist, kind of definitely not you, or at least not any you that you recognize. Because youâre hardly like those girls on TLC saying yes to the dress and you would never compete for a man like those poor actress-wannabes on The Bachelor.
Youâve never dreamt of an aqua-blue ring box.
Then, something happened. Another birthday, maybe. A breakup. Your brotherâs wedding. His wife-elect asked you to be a bridesmaid, and suddenly there you were, wondering how in hell you came to be 36 years old, walking down the aisle wearing something halfway decent from J. Crew that you could totally repurpose with a cute pair of boots and a jean jacket. You started to hate the bride â she was so effing happy â and for the first time ever you began to have feelings about the fact that youâre not married. You never really cared that much before. But suddenly (it was so sudden) you found yourself wondering⊠Deep, deep breath⊠Why youâre not married.
Well, I know why.
How? It basically comes down to this: Iâve been married three times. Yes, three. To a very nice MBA at 19; a very nice ministerâs son at 32 (and pregnant); and at 40, to a very nice liar and cheater who was just like my dad, if my dad had gone to Harvard instead of doing multiple stints in federal prison.
I was, for some reason, born knowing how to get married. Growing up in foster care is a big part of it. The need for security made me look for very specific traits in the men I dated â traits it turns out lead to marriage a surprisingly high percentage of the time. Without really trying to, Iâve become a sort of jailhouse lawyer of relationships â someone whoâs had to do so much work on her own case that I can now help you with yours.
But I wonât lie. The problem is not men, itâs you. Sure, there are lame men out there, but theyâre not really standing in your way. Because the fact is â if whatever youâre doing right now was going to get you married, youâd already have a ring on it. So without further ado, letâs look at the top six reasons why youâre not married.
1. You're a Bitch. · 2. You're Shallow. · 3. You're a Slut. · 4. You're a Liar. · 5. You're Selfish. · 6. You're Not Good Enough.
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